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Día de los Muertos takes on new meaning in Uvalde

Jermya López, 8, Xavier López's brother, and his niece Katalina Mata, 1, play on top of Annabelle Rodríguez's grave which is next to Xavier's on Day of the Dead.

Día de los Muertos, the holiday that honors loved ones who have passed, resonated in Uvalde, Texas, with a deeper degree of tragedy this year after the community lost 19 children and two teachers in the mass shooting at Robb Elementary School last May.

A mural painted by artist Lizbeth Ortiz and Leticia Santos depicting an altar for the children and teachers who were killed during the mass shooting at Robb Elementary School.
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Families and friends in this predominantly Latino community tried their best to put their pain aside to honor tradition and celebrate the lives of loved ones who have gone — and the lives that were taken by the gunman.

Dozens gathered Wednesday afternoon at the Hillcrest Cemetery, where many of the victims are buried, for a quiet annual mass in English and Spanish.

Kimberly García, Amerie Jo Garza's mother and her stepfather Angel Garza, march around the cemetery with others passing by the gravesites on Day of the Dead at Hillcrest Memorial Cemetery.
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A woman prays during an All Souls Day mass at Hillcrest Memorial Cemetery on Wednesday, Nov. 2, 2022, in Uvalde, Texas.
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Priest Eddy Morales blesses people with holy water during the All Souls Day mass at Hillcrest Memorial Cemetery
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And many families set up altars covered in traditional marigolds and their children's favorite things beside their graves.

The myth, the legend is today they are here with us.

"The myth, the legend is today they are here with us," said Javier Cazares, the father of 9-year-old Jacklyn Cazares, who was killed in the shooting.

Cazares choked up as he talked about the holiday and his daughter's colorful "ofrenda" full of stuffed animals, photos with family members and some of her favorite snacks to share.

"They're here, dancing around, having a good time with their families," he said.

Amber Alaniz, 21, left, Juanita Cázares, center, and Polly Alaniz, cousins and aunt of Jackie Cázares, help decorate her grave on Day of the Dead on Nov. 2, 2022, in Uvalde, Texas.
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Jacklyn "Jackie" Jaylen Cázares' altar on Nov. 2, 2022, in Uvalde, Texas. Other family photos of deceased relatives are placed as part of the altar.
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Photos of Xavier López and Annabelle Rodríguez at Xavier's altar. Xavier and Annabelle were boyfriend and girlfriend and were buried together.
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Christopher Seiler, who was Makenna Lee Elrod's stepfather, April Elrod, and her son Holden Elrod, 8, help decorate Makenna's altar.
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April Elrod lost her 10-year-old daughter Makenna in the shooting and made sure her daughter's altar included her beloved Takis chips and Dum-Dum lollipops for people to try.

"It's the first time we've set one up. We're Baptists," she said. "It's not a holiday that we normally celebrate but we felt this year that we wanted to celebrate with the other families."

Butterflies adorned framed photos of Makenna playing softball and riding a horse.

Makenna Lee Elrod's photo of her in a horse at her altar.
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Julian Moreno, 81, he was a pastor at the Primera Iglesia Bautista for 50 years. Moreno was Alexandria "Lexi" Aniyah Rubio's great-grandfather and said it is very difficult to attend church after Lexie was killed because it reminds him of her since she attended that church.
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Alexandria "Lexie" Aniyah Rubio's favorite food and things at her altar on Day of the Dead.
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Faith Mata, Tess M. Mata's sister, left, remembers her sister along with Lexie's family in gray t-shirts and her parents Veronica Mata and Jerry Mata.
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Ana Rodríguez, Maite Rodríguez's mother, fixes a beanie hat that belonged to her daughter before she places it on top of her daughter's urn at her altar.
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Ana Rodriguez, mother of 10-year-old Maite Rodríguez, set her daughter's ashes atop her altar next to a pair of Maite's signature green Converse sneakers.

Maite Y. Rodríguez's shoes displayed on her altar at Hillcrest Memorial Cemetery.
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Hundreds of Uvalde residents had trickled into the cemetery by mid-afternoon.

Adalynn C. Ruíz, 23, Eva Mireles' daughter, serves her mother's favorite wine in front of her grave.
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Eva Mireles' grave is seen decorated on Day of the Dead at Hillcrest Memorial Cemetery.
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As darkness fell, mariachis began to play and belt out ballads into the night, as most people were in no hurry to leave the cemetery and the souls they came to celebrate.

A mariachi group plays during Day of the Dead at Hillcrest Memorial Cemetery.
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Tess Marie Mata's altar along with other family member pictures at Hillcrest Memorial Cemetery on Nov. 2, 2022, in Uvalde, Texas.
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One family settled in to watch the Houston Astros play in the World Series on a TV they set up. Another family watched the movie "Coco", about a Mexican boy who has an adventure on Dia de los Muertos.

In the Uvalde town square, there was more food and music organized by lifelong resident Katie Fulton.

Jackie Cázares' offerings of her favorite food are seen on her altar.
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"All my life I've lived here and I don't think there's been any kind of celebrations like this," she said.

Fulton described how people in Uvalde often travel to nearby cities like San Antonio to join in their Día de los Muertos celebrations. This year, they could do it at home.

Tess Marie Mata's offerings of her favorite food.
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And Fulton hoped that for this one evening, the community, torn apart by the shooting and the controversy that has followed, could unite around the holiday.

"We can all just be one with this celebration," she said.

Adalynn C. Ruíz, 23, shakes Beto O'Rourke's hand, the Democratic candidate for governor of Texas at Hillcrest Memorial Cemetery.
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A thought echoed by Cazares, Jacklyn's dad, who organized the cemetery event.

"We're all hurting but at the same time, we're happy because we're here together," he said.

People make bracelets with beads, one of Jacklyn "Jackie" Jaylen Cázares' favorite activities next to her grave on Day of the Dead on Nov. 2, 2022.
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Edited by Amy Isackson
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